Every night she lies awake blaming Insomnia,

🎧🎵Your hair’s grown a little longer
Your arms look a little stronger
Your eyes just as I remember
Your smile’s just a little softer
And I, and I never prepared for a moment like that
Yeah, in a second it came all back, it all came back
‘Cause after all these years
I still feel everything when you are near
And it was just a quick hello
And you had to go
And you probably will never know
You’re still the one I’m after all these years🎧🎵

All these years – Camila Cabello


For now, For Ever Always ✌

if you ever need me, i’ll be here… if you want to run away, i can’t promise i will stop you from running, but i can run with you. if you ever need me, i’ll be here

if you ever need me, i’ll be here…
if you ever want to cry, i can’t promise i will stop you from crying, but i can cry with you. if you ever need me, i’ll be here

if you ever need me, i’ll be here…
when you need someone to listen, i can’t promise i will be able to tell you the right advice, but i will listen with all of my heart and no distractions. if you ever need me, i’ll be here

if you ever need me, i’ll be here… to hold your hand through the storm, and be a shoulder to cry on. I can’t promise anything. but i will do everything i can to be there for you when you need me. and i won’t make you do anything you don’t want to do. but i promise i will be the friend you always needed. even if you didn’t need me. i’ll still be here.

Betraying the boy for the man

Not every relationship is meant to last forever, and more often than not, each partner may feel differently in regard to whether or not it’s time to call it quits. But how do you know when it’s really over and when the discomfort that you feel is an indicator that there’s work to be done before you can upgrade your relationship to the next level? Knowing the difference between these two is crucial for anyone who seeks to deepen the quality of connection in their relationship. Like the lyrics of another popular song say, “You gotta know when to hold ’em, and when to fold ’em”. The impulse to fold is strong when things (inevitably) get difficult in a relationship. There is an understandable tendency to justify our decision by telling ourselves that it’s just not working anymore, rather than looking at some of the deeper causes for the boredom, resentment, or discomfort that you’re experiencing. The problem with leaving too soon, is that you may be missing the very thing that you originally signed up to get in the first place. It’s possible that the love that you wanted to experience is available on the other side of the next challenge, or the one after that

Be like a tree and let the dead leaves drop(A you by you)

I picked this as number one because it is the most common unknown of the list. If you walk into marriage as an incomplete person you will still have a sense of lacking after the unraveling of twenty years into it. It is your responsibility to motivate yourself to get back into school and finally earn that extra degree. The important ambush you’ve been postponing on, to get your boss to sign off on your raise or the promotion you believe to have worked hard to earn, is yours for the taking. No wife’s nagging in the background is going to make this easier or more worth it. Only you stand between yourself and the strong sense of fulfillment.

Don’t be Eye Candy be Soul Food.

Hey girl,

There is nothing wrong with being high maintenance. Just as long as you can afford the expensive things in life you desire. If not then that makes you a money grabber. Forcing him to buy you an expensive lifestyle is very unattractive. His ability to provide is very important to him. Might not show it, but he works really hard to earn his money. So you bleeding him dry makes him feel your intentions are not bona fide. Worse is he’s almost sure he’ll lose you if he loses the coin. Therefore he’d rather drop you and keep the dough than lose both altogether.

I must say, it makes much more sense anyway.

You stabbed me then pretended you were the one who was bleeding 😈

Sometimes you wouldn’t see it if it was lit with stadium floodlights. Questions becomes traps.‘Well would you rather go out with your friends or stay home with me?’. Statements becomes traps.The relationship is a jungle and somewhere along the way you’ve turned into a hunted thing in a skin suit. When the ‘gotcha’ comes, there’s no forgiveness, just the glory of catching you out. It’s impossible to move forward from this. Everyone makes mistakes, but yours are used as proof that you’re too uninvested, too wrong, too stupid, too something. The only thing you really are is too good to be treated like this.

Wokabi’s own

The bitter truth bitters

Then comes the real moment of making the difficult decision. You know you have to gather some courage to make that step, and even when you know it’s for the best, you can’t help but feeling devastated and afraid of what’s coming next. It’s the moment you realize you’re going to be by yourself again. It’s not that you can’t live alone, but you dread the fact of no longer being able to share your life with that person you still love, the one you counted on during those difficult moments. However, you know you can’t stay with them anymore.

You were my hardest goodbye 👋

Wokabi’s own